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By Marquesa LaDawn
NNPA Columnist

 

Yes, I miss The Real Housewives of Atlanta, but I getting my fix with Kandi’s spinoff show.

Kandi is almost perfect until you get her around her family (The Tuckers, Moma Joyce and gang, plus the assistants) all headed on a “ski trip.” I hate to say this folks, but most Black folks do not ski. Anyway, it’s less about the skiing and more about the family dynamics.

I love that Kandi called it first on her Bravo blog by saying, “watching my family on the ski trip, reminds me of the Beverly Hillbillies.” The aunties expressed dismay with a lot of things, especially the sleeping quarters. I have to agree that expecting folks of that age to walk far is not realistic, but it did not stop there – they had to share all frustrations. This included Kandi being a bit absent from their lives. Really? She is a newlywed with a new stepdaughter and grieving husband added to an already busy life. Did they forget that she was humiliated by her own mother’s behavior towards her marriage and the aunts did not help? I have to give it to Kandi for handling the situation with class. Yes she tends to sweep things under the rug, but she just apologized and kept it moving. I have a feeling disagreements will not end as smoothly in the next episode.

Meanwhile, The Real Housewives of New York prompted a question: Why is it that brilliant, almost perfect, business women struggle so much in personal relationships? This seems to be a trend, really. (In the interest of full disclosure, I also struggle in this area. And like B, I’m working on it). B started this episode not being very tolerant. To be brutally honest, some folks have weird things that they do that you just have to comment on. Heather, loves to use urban terms like “hola” and “mama” for her friends, and the list goes on. And when you anger her, she becomes a thug girl.

Even so, it seems to go against her look and lifestyle. This makes it tempting for folks like B and others to make fun of her. It doesn’t bother Heather because she’s secure and knows it gives her “flava”! Back to B, she’s not feeling Heather or any of the newer housewives. She’s very direct about letting them know that they must earnher trust. Some may say this seems a bit mean, but if you look at her childhood and on-air therapy sessions, she acknowledges that she’s messed up. It was nice to see her talk things through with her stepfather, after 20-plus years of zero communication. She wants her daughter to experience a total family from her side. In spite of her big issues, she’s still Skinny Girl Perfect.

This episode showed the ladies at a boxing match and it was weird seeing perfectly coiffed ladies getting sweat all over them. It’s always interesting to see how these relationships evolve. It looks like Luann and Carole will not be great friends anytime soon. We all know it’s because of Carole’s relationship with Luann’s nieces ex-boyfriend that happens to be at least 30 years younger. Looking forward to next week when they really talk this out!

 

My new favorite Queens of Drama

I’m so hurt that my girl, Vanessa Marcil (from General Hospital and Beverly Hills 90210), lost it. I guess I believed her perfect character on GH when, in fact, she’s more like her flawed character from BH 90210. She’s easily irritated and throws tantrums at the drop of a dime. She finally lost it in the week’s episode and ran away. I’m praying for you girl! On another note, Donna Mills had to come down a few notches from the Abby Ewing ladder. She did not want Vanessa to know she was needed to keep the project. I think she’s a little scared that the network will not go for her replacing Vanessa. We will see.

 

The Braxton’s are back and its saucier than ever…

I was curious to see if Tamar would behave better now that she has a new talk show. It’s too soon to tell, but I see the sisters are accepting one another’s flaws and choosing to move on. The perfect marriage is anything but… Trina, is getting divorced for the third time. It looks like a battle between her and her ex will color most of this season. We are in for some interesting Fireworks!!

 

A quick word on Blood, Sex and Heels…

 My girl Mia, so perfectly tall, is not ready to be alone. She started dating a guy she considers boring. But, I’m happy with her this season because of her support for Daisy as she deals with cancer.

 

 

 

Marquesa LaDawn is a professional businesswoman who escapes the pressures of living in New York City by retreating into the real world of reality TV. Follow me on twitter @realityshowgirl and subscribe to her podcast at www.RealitytvGirl.com.

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COMMENTARY: Black Music is the Sound of Black Freedom: Let Us Reclaim Both This Juneteenth

Black Music Month started when Black Music Association members Ed Wright, Kenny Gamble and his wife, journalist and radio host Dyanna Williams were able to persuade President Jimmy Carter to establish the observation on June 7, 1979.

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Robert Johnson (1911-1938) is thought of as the godfather of blues music, especially Delta blues. The 29 songs recorded by him during his short life have been of massive inspiration to guitarists and musicians over the last 80 years. Public domain photo.
Robert Johnson (1911-1938) is thought of as the godfather of blues music, especially Delta blues. The 29 songs recorded by him during his short life have been of massive inspiration to guitarists and musicians over the last 80 years. Public domain photo.

By Wanda Ravernell

Black Music Month and Juneteenth are inextricably linked – Black music is the sound of our freedom.

From the plaintive moans of the enslaved Africans’ ‘sorrow songs,’ to the fields of Civil War battle where Black soldiers picked up abandoned bugles, to the upright piano played in juke joints on Saturday night and churches come Sunday morning, our ancestors’ innovation in the face of want, fear, degradation, and hopelessness has yielded genres of music imitated ’round the world.

Black Music Month started when Black Music Association members Ed Wright, Kenny Gamble and his wife, journalist and radio host Dyanna Williams were able to persuade President Jimmy Carter to establish the observation on June 7, 1979.

In 2000, Congress made it official. In 2009, Pres. Barack Obama changed the name to African American Music Heritage Month and in 2023, Pres. Joe Biden changed it back to Black Music Month, two years after he declared Juneteenth a national holiday, the result of a movement led by Opal Lee.

Our ancestors battle for freedom over these last 400 years and the music that allowed them expression of their humanity deserved to be honored.

But we may be losing sight of the value of their sacrifices.

‘Sing a Song Full of the Faith That the Dark past Has Taught Us…’

Along with the long-known exploitation of Black musicians whose recordings were stolen by record companies, the commercialization of Juneteenth feels like another kind of theft.

I had never heard of Juneteenth until I moved to the Bay Area from my hometown of Philadelphia. I didn’t know it was one of many freedom festivals celebrated by descendants of enslaved people in the United States.

Emancipation Day was Jan. 1 in Pennsylvania, April 16 in Wash., D.C., May 20 in Florida, and Aug. 8 in Kentucky. But Juneteenth, June 19, has the most renown, known in Texas as the ‘colored peoples’ Fourth of July.’

It was marked by parades, beauty pageants, rodeos, backyard barbecues and church picnics.

Yes, church.

The formerly enslaved began the day praying in thanks for their freedom just as they had prayed for Jubilee – the day of freedom – when they had chains on their feet and hands. They ‘testified’ about their past suffering and how they had managed to overcome.

And they sang.

Although, we will not hold it this year, Omnira Institute’s Juneteenth Ritual of Remembrance recalled this part of Juneteenth with prayers in the languages of the African captives. In the middle of the ceremony, a soloist would lead us in singing “Many Thousand Gone” while we took turns reciting portions of the Emancipation Proclamation, the news of freedom that took more than two years to reach Texas – two months after the Civil War ended.

“Many Thousand Gone” was famously recorded by Black luminary Paul Robeson in 1947:

“No more auction block for me,

No more, no more

No more auction black for me

Many thousand gone.”

Other verses refer to the ‘pint of salt’ and the ‘driver’s lash,’ the realities of enslavement that they had survived.

‘Sing a Song Full of the Hope That the Present has Brought Us’

All of the genres of African American music have at their root songs like that, the essence being, as Stevie Wonder, wrote, “the joy inside our pain.” So Black music is not just music. It is our story, our history, our very strength.

During the Civil Rights Movement, which peaked 100 years after slavery ended, the people testified that it was the freedom songs – based on spirituals – that gave them the heart to march, face attack dogs, fire hoses, beatings, and shootouts with vigilantes.

The music reminded them that power was in the people. That music, our music, can do so again. We don’t have to accept the commodification of the products of our culture.

The power of those songs is showing a resurgence across the South as we battle again for the right to self-determination through the ballot box.

Those songs are the voices of our ancestors, voices forged in their blood, their sweat, their tears, joy and, above all, faith.  Those songs, those prayers live in our blood and our very breath.

This Juneteenth, let us reclaim those holy voices expressed in Black music for ourselves. It is our birthright. It can neither be bought nor sold.  No more. Never again.

Wanda Ravernell is the executive director of Omnira Institute, sponsor for 18 years of the Juneteenth Ritual of Remembrance and Oakland’s 11th Annual Black-Eyed Pea Festival, which will take place on Sept. 12.

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