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Jewels & Gems: Mamas’ Best Advice
There is ONLY one person who can be credited with carrying each one of us in their womb for almost 9 months, and there is ONLY one person who can be credited with bringing us into this world—that person is our mother. Mothers are jewels! According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, a “jewel” is “one that […]
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There is ONLY one person who can be credited with carrying each one of us in their womb for almost 9 months, and there is ONLY one person who can be credited with bringing us into this world—that person is our mother.
Mothers are jewels!
According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, a “jewel” is “one that is highly esteemed,” meaning they are beyond average and more special than anything.
There is absolutely nothing like having a good mother in your life, but in addition to that, there is absolutely nothing like receiving sound advice from your mother. We call those “gems” and they are quality, high-value words of wisdom that come from someone we cherish and value—our mother.
There is a phrase that each of us has probably heard at least once in our lives, and that phrase is:
Mother Knows Best!
It is kind of hard to refute that statement, especially when we take a moment to reflect on the times our mother shared something with us that we possibly shunned or disagreed with, only to realize that her words of wisdom were the best advice we could have ever received—if, in fact, we would have actually listened to our mother.
Being a mother constitutes more than just birthing a child, although that is an important component. From the womb to birth, a mother serves as the selfless, sacrificial, and loving individual who God has given the unique responsibility of nurturing, providing for, educating, empowering, and protecting their child(ren) as they grow and learn how to navigate in life.
A mother may not be perfect, but their sacrifices and love, coupled with their impartation of their wisdom, knowledge, experience, and learned skills, stay with all of us as we mature.
So, whether your mother is still here on Earth to celebrate this Mother’s Day, or not, it is important that all the knowledge, wisdom, skills, experience, education, lessons, and advice she poured into you is NEVER forgotten.
The Forward Times attended the recent Audrey H. Lawson Impact Awards Luncheon and Fashion Show, where they celebrated 60 years since inception.
Chaney Ledet, Congresswoman Sheila Jackson and Diedra Fontaine, Wheeler Avenue Women’s Guild
This year’s annual event, with a theme of “A Diamond Jubilee: Celebrating Sixty Years of Scholarship, Service and Style,” was presented by Together for Good Ministries and the Wheeler Avenue Baptist Church Women’s Guild. The event, which also included a grand fashion show featuring fashions from Dillard’s Post Oak, honored seven individuals and their impact and work in the Greater Houston community, including male honorees for the first time.
Those honorees were: Mayor Sylvester Turner, City of Houston; Dr. Reagan Flowers, HCC Trustee; Attorney Chris Hollins, Esq.; Danielle Keys Bess; Attorney Mary A. Daffin, Esq.; Dr. Aziza Glass; and Angela Veale Joubert.
In honor of Mother’s Day, the Forward Times asked several different people at the event, as well as in the community, to share the best “gems’ that they ever received from their “jewel” of a mother.
We hope you enjoy all of these “gems” and nuggets of wisdom that these “jewels” have imparted to those who continue to be inspired and motivated by them each day and Happy Mother’s Day to all of our subscribers, readers, advertisers, and the community at-large.
BEST ADVICE MAMA GAVE YOU:
Mayor Sylvester Turner, City of Houston
“Son, tomorrow will be better than today.”
“Life is not fair, but you have to learn how to navigate.”
– Ruby Mae Turner, mother
U.S. Congresswoman Sheila Jackson Lee, TX-18
“You can do anything Sheila, that you want to do. Do it right, do it with kindness. If you can’t do anything else, just be good.”
– Ivalita Bennett Jackson, mother
Attorney Chris Hollins, Mayor Sylvester Turner and Rev. Alexander E.M. Johnson
Texas State Representative Ron Reynolds
“Always put God first in everything that you do.”
“No matter how many times you fail, never ever quit.”
– Glenda Brown, mother
Councilmember Martha Castex-Tatum, Vice Mayor Pro Tem, City of Houston
“Be kind in all that you do.”
“Never miss an opportunity to be compassionate and ALWAYS be grateful.”
– Earline Castex, mother
Angel Jones, City Manager, City of Missouri City
“Don’t let your circumstances define you.”
– Laura Moment, mother
Attorney Chris Hollins, Esq., Impact Awards Honoree
“Listen more than you talk.”
“Never think you’re better than anybody.”
“Always take the opportunity to learn something.”
– Mary Lee Hollins, grandmother, and member of Wheeler Avenue for over 50 years before her passing.
H-E-B, Presenting Sponsor, presents check
Danielle Keys Bess, Impact Awards Honoree
“When you are presented with an opportunity to help someone…do it, because you never know when someone you love will need help when you’re not around and you will want God to honor your act of charity.”
– Patricia Keys, mother
Jazton Heard – Police Captain, City of Missouri City
“You should only look at women in three ways: As a mother figure, your sister, or your wife.”
– Louchell Heard-Davis, mother
Rosalind Renee’ Gary, District Director for State Representative Ron Reynolds
“Always treat others like you want to be treated.”
“The Good Lord will never put anything on you that you cannot bear.”
– Juanita Corinne Ellis, mother
Linda K. Brown
“My mother advised me to treat others as I want to be treated and always give back to help those in need. – Cecil Brown, mother
Women’s Guild President, Dr. Pamela Cormier; Women’s Guild Luncheon Tri-Chairs – Dr. Rose Harper Austin, Kandyace Mayberry, Wheeler Avenue Baptist Church Member of the Year and Karen Aubrey
Kelly P. Hodges
“Stop expecting you out of other people.”
– Linda L. Burton, mother
Karen Carter Richards
“Don’t ever start believing your own press.”
“When everybody knows your business, you don’t have none.”
“In business, learn everything from the front door to the back door.”
– Lenora “Doll” Carter, mother
Valecia Weeks
“Never let the right hand know what the left hand is doing.”
“Im’ma go through your behind to get to your mind.”
– Earlene Turner, mother
Sharwin Wiltz-Boney
“Love unconditionally while setting boundaries for discipline that leads to growth.”
“They may not like the discipline in the moment but keep on mothering. They will come back to thank you one day.”
– Geneva Wiltz, mother
Congresswoman Sheila Jackson Lee
Roosevelt Weeks
“Always dress your best. Keep a clean haircut and keep your shoes shined.”
– Emma C. Weeks, mother
Gerald Womack – “Always give back.”
– Stella Marie Jackquet, mother
Layle McKelvey
“Believe in yourself, because you are smart, and you are beautiful.”
“I don’t want you to be insecure about making your way in the world. Be confident to know you can be successful.”
– Artie O’Neill, mother
Rozzy Shorter
“Always love and be true to yourself.”
– Catherine Shorter, mother
Anthony Frazier
“Tony, when you start driving, don’t be running all over town picking people up, running them here and there, and don’t drive around with a bunch of people in your truck.”
– Helen Mae Frazier, mother (This is the clean version)
Rhonda Newhouse, Laolu Davies, Karen Carter Richards, Kelly P. Hodges, and Mary Benton
Rhonda Newhouse
“It ain’t so bad that it couldn’t be worse.”
– Willie Jean Birmingham, mother
Hazel Tyler Ramsey
“Go to school and get an education, so you never have to depend on anyone else to take care of you and your needs/wants.”
– Lucy Shephard, mother
Sandra Green
“Somethings in life, you may need the skills of improvising. Come, sit down, let me show you.”
– Dorthy Pearl Brewer, mother
Jared Gilmore
“Never have more going out than you have coming in.”
– Army Vaughns, mother
Janice Beal, Diedra Fontaine, Dr.. Melanie Bibb, Deirdre Barrett, Vivian Lynn Porche, Licia Green Ellis, Rhonda Newhouse
Cosby Family
Melanie Lawson and Pastor Marcus Cosby
Ron John and Karen Carter Richards
Rev. William Lawson, Councilmember Carolyn Evans Shabazz and Cheryl Lawson
Impact Awards Honoree Dr. Reagan Flowers and Pastor Marcus Cosby
Impact Award Honoree Attorney Chris Hollins, Esq.
Impact Awards Honoree Dr. Aziza Glass
Impact Awards Honoree Angela Veale
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LIHEAP Funds Released After Weeks of Delay as States and the District Rush to Protect Households from the Cold
BLACKPRESSUSA NEWSWIRE — The federal government has released $3.6 billion in home heating assistance after a delay that left states preparing for the start of winter without the program’s annual funding.
By Stacy M. Brown
Black Press USA Senior National Correspondent
The federal government has released $3.6 billion in home heating assistance after a delay that left states preparing for the start of winter without the program’s annual funding. The Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program, known as LIHEAP, helps eligible households pay heating and cooling bills. The release follows a shutdown that stretched 43 days and pushed agencies across the country to warn families of possible disruptions.
State officials in Minnesota, Kansas, New York, and Pennsylvania had already issued alerts that the delay could slow the processing of applications or force families to wait until December for help. In Pennsylvania, more than 300,000 households depend on the program each year. Minnesota officials noted that older adults, young children, and people with disabilities face the highest risk as temperatures fall.
The delay also raised concerns among advocates who track household debt tied to rising utility costs. National Energy Assistance Directors Association Executive Director Mark Wolfe said the funds were “essential and long overdue” and added that high arrearages and increased energy prices have strained families seeking help.
Some states faced additional pressure when other services were affected by the shutdown. According to data reviewed by national energy advocates, roughly 68 percent of LIHEAP households also receive nutrition assistance, and the freeze in multiple programs increased the financial burden on low-income residents. Wolfe said families were placed in “an even more precarious situation than usual” as the shutdown stretched into November.
In Maryland, lawmakers urged the Trump administration to release funds after the state recorded its first cold-related death of the season. The Maryland Department of Health reported that a man in his 30s was found outdoors in Frederick County when temperatures dropped. Last winter, the state documented 75 cold-related deaths, the highest number in five years. Rep Kweisi Mfume joined more than 100 House members calling for immediate federal action and said LIHEAP “is not a luxury” for the 100,000 Maryland households that rely on it. He added that seniors and veterans would be placed at risk if the program remained stalled.
Maryland Gov. Wes Moore used $10.1 million in state funds to keep benefits moving, but noted that states cannot routinely replace federal dollars. His administration said families that rely on medical equipment requiring electricity are particularly vulnerable.
The District of Columbia has already mapped out its FY26 LIHEAP structure in documents filed with the federal government. The District’s plan shows that heating assistance, cooling assistance, weatherization, and year-round crisis assistance operate from October 1 through September 30. The District allocates 50 percent of its LIHEAP funds to heating assistance, 10 percent to cooling, 13 percent to year-round crisis assistance, 15 percent to weatherization, and 10 percent to administrative costs. Two percent is used for services that help residents reduce energy needs, including education on reading utility bills and identifying energy waste.
The District’s plan lists a minimum LIHEAP benefit of $200 and a maximum of $1,800 for both heating and cooling assistance. Crisis benefits are provided separately and may reach up to $500 when needed to resolve an emergency. The plan states that a household is considered in crisis if it has been disconnected from energy service, if heating oil is at 5 percent or less of capacity, or if the household has at least $200 owed after the regular benefit is applied.
The District’s filing notes that LIHEAP staff conduct outreach through community meetings, senior housing sites, Advisory Neighborhood Commissions, social media, posters, and mass mailings. The plan confirms that LIHEAP applicants can apply in person, by mail, by email, or through a mobile-friendly online application and that physically disabled residents may request in-home visits.
As agencies nationwide begin distributing the newly released funds, states continue working through large volumes of applications. Wolfe said LIHEAP administrators “have been notified that the award letters have gone out and the states can begin to draw down the funds.”
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Seven Steps to Help Your Child Build Meaningful Connections
BLACKPRESSUSA NEWSWIRE — Swinging side by side with a friend on the playground. Sharing chalk over bright, colorful sidewalk drawings. Hiding behind a tree during a spirited game of hide-and-seek. These simple moments between children may seem small, but they matter more than we think
By Niyoka McCoy, Ed.D., Chief Learning Officer, Stride/K12
Swinging side by side with a friend on the playground. Sharing chalk over bright, colorful sidewalk drawings. Hiding behind a tree during a spirited game of hide-and-seek. These simple moments between children may seem small, but they matter more than we think: They lay the foundation for some of life’s most important skills.
Through everyday play, young children begin learning essential social and emotional skills like sharing, resolving conflicts, showing empathy, and managing their emotions. These social skills help shape emotional growth and set kids up for long-term success. Socialization in early childhood isn’t just a “nice-to-have”—it’s essential for development.
Yet today, many young children who haven’t yet started school aren’t getting enough consistent, meaningful interaction with peers. Research shows that there’s a decline in active free play and peer socialization when compared to previous generations.
There are many reasons for this. Children who are home with a parent during the day may spend most of their time with adults, limiting opportunities for peer play. Those in daycare or preschool may have restricted free play, and large classrooms can reduce supervision and social coaching. Some children live in rural areas, are homebound due to illness, have full schedules, or rely on screens to fill their playtime. And for some families, finding other families with young children to connect with isn’t easy.
While these challenges can feel significant, opportunities for connection still exist in every community. Families can take simple steps to help children build friendships, create a sense of belonging, and strengthen social skills. Here are some ideas to get started:
- Storytime sessions at libraries or local bookstores
- Community offerings such as parent-child workshops, art, music, gymnastics, swimming, or sports programs
- Weekly events at children’s museums, which may include art projects, music workshops, or science experiments
- Outdoor exploration, where kids can play with peers
- Local parenting groups that organize playdates and group activities
- Volunteer opportunities where children can participate, such as pet adoption events or packing meals at a food bank
- Classes for kids at local businesses, including hardware, grocery, or craft stores
Some of these community activities are free or low-cost and give kids the chance to build friendships and practice social skills. Parents can also model positive social behavior by interacting with other parents and encouraging their children to play with their peers.
These may seem like small moments of connection, but they can have a powerful impact. Every time your child shares a toy, plays make-believe with peers, or races a friend down the slide, they’re not just playing—they’re learning the skills that build confidence, empathy, and lasting friendships. And it’s good for you, too. Creating intentional opportunities for play also helps you strengthen your own network of parents who can support one another as your children grow together.
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Seven Steps to Help Your Child Build Meaningful Connections
BLACKPRESSUSA NEWSWIRE — Swinging side by side with a friend on the playground. Sharing chalk over bright, colorful sidewalk drawings. Hiding behind a tree during a spirited game of hide-and-seek. These simple moments between children may seem small, but they matter more than we think
By Niyoka McCoy, Ed.D., Chief Learning Officer, Stride/K12
Swinging side by side with a friend on the playground. Sharing chalk over bright, colorful sidewalk drawings. Hiding behind a tree during a spirited game of hide-and-seek. These simple moments between children may seem small, but they matter more than we think: They lay the foundation for some of life’s most important skills.
Through everyday play, young children begin learning essential social and emotional skills like sharing, resolving conflicts, showing empathy, and managing their emotions. These social skills help shape emotional growth and set kids up for long-term success. Socialization in early childhood isn’t just a “nice-to-have”—it’s essential for development.
Yet today, many young children who haven’t yet started school aren’t getting enough consistent, meaningful interaction with peers. Research shows that there’s a decline in active free play and peer socialization when compared to previous generations.
There are many reasons for this. Children who are home with a parent during the day may spend most of their time with adults, limiting opportunities for peer play. Those in daycare or preschool may have restricted free play, and large classrooms can reduce supervision and social coaching. Some children live in rural areas, are homebound due to illness, have full schedules, or rely on screens to fill their playtime. And for some families, finding other families with young children to connect with isn’t easy.
While these challenges can feel significant, opportunities for connection still exist in every community. Families can take simple steps to help children build friendships, create a sense of belonging, and strengthen social skills. Here are some ideas to get started:
- Storytime sessions at libraries or local bookstores
- Community offerings such as parent-child workshops, art, music, gymnastics, swimming, or sports programs
- Weekly events at children’s museums, which may include art projects, music workshops, or science experiments
- Outdoor exploration, where kids can play with peers
- Local parenting groups that organize playdates and group activities
- Volunteer opportunities where children can participate, such as pet adoption events or packing meals at a food bank
- Classes for kids at local businesses, including hardware, grocery, or craft stores
Some of these community activities are free or low-cost and give kids the chance to build friendships and practice social skills. Parents can also model positive social behavior by interacting with other parents and encouraging their children to play with their peers.
These may seem like small moments of connection, but they can have a powerful impact. Every time your child shares a toy, plays make-believe with peers, or races a friend down the slide, they’re not just playing—they’re learning the skills that build confidence, empathy, and lasting friendships. And it’s good for you, too. Creating intentional opportunities for play also helps you strengthen your own network of parents who can support one another as your children grow together.
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