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By Marquesa LaDawn
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Reality TV gets a lot of heat for so many reasons…it’s dramatic, over the top and at times not very “real.” However, there are some real moments we can all learn from, even for business. Among the lessons:

  1. Stuff happens! We all need to share our deepest thoughts, fears and challenges with a trusted advise.RHONY’s Bethenny Frankel, successfully created a multi-million dollar brand called Skinny Girl, but faces big challenges in her personal life. She talks through her pain with her trusted advisers.
  1. Now, we all have this thing called pride, and it will trip us up on occasion. RHONY Housewife, Kristen, showed her grace by apologizing to Sonya about not being supportive of her business. Kristen fell into the peer pressure bubble and judged hard but after her friend Sonya produced a result, she apologized.
  1. Many entrepreneurs struggle with picking a lane in their business. They become “jack of all trades and masters of none.” Sonya Morgan was all over the place for the longest. She had a business vision but struggled with selling it to anyone. This led to her reputation as a person with a fake business. The good news is that once she narrowed it down and hired the right team to execute, she succeeded.
  1. Watch out for the critics! RHONY’s Housewife Heather, a successful housewife in her own right, tried hard to mentor Sonya a couple of years back and failed. Sonya was too scattered and Heather wasn’t patient. Now, Heather is being supercritical. Not because she wants Sonya to fail, she knows her big goal and may just have a hard time seeing Sonya get there – her way.
  1. Although you want to say it, should you? The Real housewives are known for not always having a filter. Reputations have been damaged, relationships ruined, marriages exhausted and true weaknesses revealed, all because of loose lips. At times, I appreciate the candor, it’s refreshing. Most times, it’s not smart to say what you think. Dorinda, the newest NY Housewife has this problem, Ramona is the definition of loose lips, Bethenny can write a book on it (and probably, will); Nene from RHOA, needs helps in this area, Kenya would not win Miss USA in this category and the list goes on!
  1. Vulnerability equalizes you! Reality TV shows it all and not just the good stuff. If you have a weak marriage, we see it. If you have poor relationships, we see it. If you are breaking the law, it’s revealed. It’s interesting how the fans will love and support even more, when they see you fail. It’s called vulnerability. And, yes, it works in business. It’s creates relationship. I think of Bethenny and how we highly respect her journey to success while being empathetic to her failures, like her talk show and marriage. She always comes up on top and leverages her journey in every way. Heck, she wrote a book titled, I Suck at Relationships. It’s on the New York Times bestseller list!
  1. Master Emotional Intelligence – Although, showing your vulnerable side will win you points, showing it the wrong way will lose you points. Ramona (RHONY), Phaedra and Nene (RHOA), Brandi and Kim (RHOBH), struggle with processing emotional intelligence.
  1. Be careful who you trust – This is another huge blind spot for the housewives. Folks are going to talk. It’s not about what they say, it’s about how you respond.
  1. Set new goals especially outside your comfort zone RHONY Carole, shocked us by running for president of her New York apartment building board. She has no experience in this area and could have failed miserably. She set a goal, put it out there and won!
  1. Try to support your friends, even when it’s a challenge – Business people do not like their time to be wasted with mess. But, sometimes that mess comes from a friend that you may care about. Be willing to support that friend, you never know when you may need help. Bethenny showed a huge amount of support for Sonya when she needed it, I have a feeling Sonya will return the favor, very soon!
  1. Be careful about judging others personal choices – If I hear one more time that Dorinda’s boyfriend is trash, I will scream. It’s inappropriate for folks struggling in their own personal lives to judge others, but we do. Stop it!
  1. Power still comes with a lot of responsibility – Andy Cohen, is the big boss at Bravo for the Real Housewives franchise. He’s handled that role along with being the host of all the reunions like a true professional. He recently discussed on his WWHL show, how being the Boss can be scary at times. He takes his roles very seriously by not favoring the housewives and judging them in public. I can’t tell you how many times, I wanted him to shut somebody down. But, he goes out of his way to remain in partial. Take this lesson and apply it in the biggest way!

 

Marquesa LaDawn is a professional businesswoman who escapes the pressures of living in New York City by retreating into the real world of reality TV. Follow me on twitter @realityshowgirl and subscribe to her podcast at www.RealitytvGirl.com.
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Misty Copeland Shapes Ballet’s Tomorrow

THE POSITIVE COMMUNITY — Misty Copeland will curate the 2026 Joyce Ballet Festival, a two-week event in New York City from August 4-16. This role allows her to influence the future of ballet by showcasing a wide range of dancers, choreographers, and companies. The festival will present both established and contemporary works, blending classical traditions with new artistic expressions.

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This summer, Misty Copeland will step into a different kind of spotlight. Instead of taking center stage as a dancer, she will help determine what audiences see onstage as curator of the 2026 Joyce Ballet Festival. Taking place August 4 through August 16 at The Joyce Theater in New York City, the two-week celebration will bring together dancers, choreographers and companies representing a broad spectrum of ballet. The festival gives Copeland an opportunity to share not only her appreciation for ballet’s traditions, but also her vision for its future.

Copeland understands better than most how powerful a ballet stage can be. Her historic career with American Ballet Theatre changed the conversation about representation in one of the world’s most traditional performing arts. When she became the company’s first Black woman to reach the rank of principal dancer, her achievement carried significance far beyond a personal milestone. It gave young dancers of color a new image of what was possible and challenged the industry to reconsider who belonged at the center of ballet.

That history informs the perspective she brings to the festival. Copeland has spent much of her career moving between performance, mentorship, advocacy and storytelling. Her curatorial role allows her to bring those interests together by creating a program that does not treat ballet as a museum piece. Instead, the festival presents dance as an evolving language capable of carrying classical traditions into new cultural and artistic territory.

Audiences will encounter a mixture of established works and contemporary creations during the festival. Classical ballet vocabulary will share space with choreography that pushes dancers toward different physical, emotional and theatrical possibilities. The result is intended to give audiences a broader understanding of the art form while demonstrating that tradition and innovation do not have to be competing forces.

The lineup also provides an opportunity to see dancers from different artistic environments. Performers connected to organizations including American Ballet Theatre, New York City Ballet, Paris Opera Ballet, Houston Ballet, Dance Theatre of Harlem and Complexions Contemporary Ballet are among those represented in the festival. Each company carries its own history and artistic identity, making their participation part of a larger conversation about the many ways ballet can be performed and interpreted.

The presence of Dance Theatre of Harlem is particularly meaningful within the larger story of Copeland’s career and the evolution of Black representation in ballet. Founded during a period when opportunities for Black dancers were severely limited, the company helped demonstrate that excellence and classical training could flourish in a Black cultural environment. Its legacy continues to influence dancers and audiences, making its connection to a festival curated by Copeland especially resonant.

The program also reaches beyond a single definition of contemporary ballet. Choreographers with different backgrounds and artistic philosophies contribute to an evening that can move from recognizable classical structures to works shaped by modern dance, theater, popular culture and new approaches to movement. That diversity reflects a generation of artists who increasingly see ballet not as a rigid vocabulary but as a foundation from which they can explore.

For New York audiences, the festival offers something that is increasingly valuable: the opportunity to experience outstanding dancers in an intimate setting. The Joyce is known for presenting dance in a theater where audiences can see movement and artistry up close. That environment can make a familiar ballet work feel newly personal while allowing experimental pieces to communicate with unusual immediacy.

Copeland’s role as curator also sends a message about the importance of artistic leadership. The people who select performers and choreography help determine which stories receive attention and which artists receive opportunities. By bringing a range of voices into the festival, Copeland is using that responsibility to broaden the conversation around ballet. Her choices can introduce audiences to artists they may not otherwise encounter while encouraging longtime ballet followers to look at the form from a different perspective.

The 2026 Joyce Ballet Festival ultimately arrives at an important moment for the art form. Ballet is carrying centuries of tradition into an era defined by changing audiences, broader representation and increasingly adventurous choreography. Copeland’s festival reflects that transition. For two weeks in August, The Joyce will become a meeting place for the familiar and the unexpected—a celebration of where ballet came from and a preview of where it may be going. And with Misty Copeland helping shape the conversation, the future of ballet promises to be as expansive as the dancers who are defining it.

Based on reporting by The Positive Community.



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