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Building Wealth with Your Mind Before Your Bank Account with Ashley Fox of EMPIFY

WASHINGTON INFORMER — Ashley Fox, founder EMPIFY, and former Wall Street Analyst is working to shift that narrative. Ashley’s idea of financial wealth was dramatically altered when she was exposed to massive amounts of wealth on Wall Street. From this experience, she began to see the expansive possibilities of wealth and was inspired to teach a wealth-building mindset in her own community.

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By Cherrelle Swain

Ashley Fox, founder EMPIFY, and former Wall Street Analyst is working to shift that narrative. Ashley’s idea of financial wealth was dramatically altered when she was exposed to massive amounts of wealth on Wall Street. From this experience, she began to see the expansive possibilities of wealth and was inspired to teach a wealth-building mindset in her own community.

Ashley created EMPIFY to brings the exposure, tools, and resources that wealthy people know, believe and are taught to a community of people who want to be more than financially secure but don’t know where to start. Since 2013, she has built a series of EMPIFY programs that have empowered students in Philadelphia, New York City, and Atlanta schools. Ashley also gave EMPIFY courses to incarcerated youth who came from Rikers Island Prison in New York.

Participants enter EMPIFY’s Wealth Builders program with a very limited perception of what wealth looks like.

“Many of our students believe that wealth looks like an old white man wearing a trench coat,” explains Fox.

However, by way of EMPIFY, Ashley is redefining the way that black people see wealth. What many thought was once so complicated, she has found a way to make culturally relevant and easy to understand while showing the community how to get it done.

“EMPIFY shows the community that you can actually be a regular girl with a pair of Nikes, wearing a t-shirt, and be wealthy,” explains Ashley.  “I intentionally do not wear black and blue suits when I teach. I also change my hair often because I want to redefine how our community views wealth in America. Wealth does not have a color, and we all need to debunk the idea of what wealth looks like, so that we believe it looks like us,” she continues.

EMPIFY’S latest initiative, The Black Male Educators Wealth Building Program, is an innovative partnership with the Black Male Educators Convening and United Way, which has helped 15 Black male educators in Philadelphia learn how to invest. The free summer program was offered once a week for five weeks to help better grow, support and build Black men in education.

The impetus for this partnership surfaced from the need for more financially empowering spaces for Black male educators. This need came full circle through Ashley’s experience working with incarcerated young men in New York City. She witnessed too many black children at Rikers Island Prison without role models and/or father-figures in their lives.

She asked herself, “What if they went to school and saw a strong black man that wasn’t stressed out about money? What if they had relationships with strong black men who were happy?  What can I do to prevent kids from being incarcerated?”

In response grew EMPIFY’s Black Male Educator course to train Black male educators to be investors and build wealth.

In the beginning, many of the men felt awkward or uncomfortable talking about money, they were skeptical. Only four of the twenty men had invested before and none of them felt confident in their investing abilities.

“They came to class with the misconception that you need a lot of money to invest,” explains Ashley. Our program taught them that in order to gain wealth you must build it with your mind before your bank account.

Developing this mindset was foundational because the educators were doubtful of what they would be able to get from the course. Ashley explains, “oftentimes our community gives up or doesn’t think it’s possible to gain wealth because they’ve grown accustomed to not having it.”

Over the years, Ashley has heard many stories that her students, adult or youth, have told themselves about money and have chosen to believe. Some have told themselves the story that society sets it up so they can’t do it. As a result, they have a voice inside of them that tells them they can’t do it.

“Whatever story or reason you come up with, it will either propel or prevent you from being able to do it.” Ashley Fox

As the course progressed, the men’s views about money did too. “EMPIFY removes the layers of the negative stories that are on the hearts and minds of adults and young people in our community,” reflects Ashley.

In just a few weeks’ time, she saw the Black male educator’s capacity and understanding of the stock market increase dramatically. There were many moments where the men engaged in deep conversations on their own, speaking about what they were going to invest in and evaluate why it was a good or bad investment.

Ashley recalls, one of the educators who referred to her as “teach” enthusiastically coming to class the third week exclaiming, “I’ve been up all night researching, I’ve got my list of stocks, I know what I want to buy and I’m ready to invest!”

In just five weeks’ time, the men understood the basics of the stock market, how to select good investments, and identified which stocks they wanted to own. By the last session, each educator learned how to actually invest, opened their own brokerage accounts, and purchased their first stocks.  As a culmination to the course, each educator received $200 to invest. Collectively the Black male educators invested $4,000 thus increasing their aggregate net worth as a community.

The course showed them how to start building small, managing money differently and setting just a little aside each month.  It demonstrated to them that when they focus their thoughts and beliefs on things they desire, they can change the trajectory of their lives.

When asked how this experience might affect the students these men served, Ashley responded, “Now they see themselves as investors. When you walk around as an investor – you feel stronger, you have a better hold on your money; you walk differently, you talk differently, what you believe is possible is different.” In the case of the Black male educators – this confidence and knowledge will trickle down to their students.

Ashley encourages all of us to begin thinking like investors, “gaining wealth requires us to do something different individually that can massively change the black community collectively. We need to focus on bettering ourselves, recognizing the opportunities that are out there, and make it a priority to get involved. It’s opening our minds and hearts to say we can do this, we deserve this; and if we actually believe it’s shifting the black narrative, it’s our duty to do this as black people.”

EMPIFY has a wealth-building online app-based community that anyone can join. Included in the membership are weekly classes, tools, and resources to guide members through their financial journey. Beyond the toolkits and courses, the community offers a safe space for people to be supported and encouraged by one another and experts. Currently, there are more than 600 members in the community. To join the Wealth Building Community visit bit.ly/empifycommunity.

“I just push people inside the door. Once they see what’s inside – they realize there is so much out there – they want more, and they want the guidance to get there. Too often as black people, we just stand at the door. We want to go inside, we may even peek in a little bit. EMPIFY gets you through the door, and once you’re inside, you realize you belong, and we show you how to get it done until you no longer need us [EMPIFY].”

This post originally appeared in The Washington Informer.

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61 years after Selma, Houston leaders say the fight for equality continues. The issues that sparked the marches still impact Black Americans today.

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Here is what you need to know about finding unique white elephant gift ideas that everyone wants to steal

The best white elephant gift ideas are funny enough to get a reaction but useful enough that people actually want to steal them. Look for gifts with a surprise factor, broad appeal, an inside joke, and just enough personality to spark some friendly competition. The wrapping paper comes off, the room goes quiet for half […]

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The best white elephant gift ideas are funny enough to get a reaction but useful enough that people actually want to steal them. Look for gifts with a surprise factor, broad appeal, an inside joke, and just enough personality to spark some friendly competition.

The wrapping paper comes off, the room goes quiet for half a second, and suddenly everyone wants the same gift. That is the sweet spot. A great white elephant pick should make people laugh, lean in, and start plotting their next steal before the turn is even over.

Should a White Elephant Gift Be Funny or Useful?

A white elephant gift can be funny or useful, but the strongest choices usually give people a reason to laugh and a reason to keep the item. A practical gift with an odd design, unexpected feature, or playful theme can get a reaction without becoming something the recipient immediately wants to give away.

The right balance depends on the group. Close friends and family members may enjoy a ridiculous gag gift because they already understand one another’s sense of humor.

A workplace exchange, neighborhood party, or mixed-age gathering usually calls for something with broader appeal. In those settings, humor works better when it is built into an item people could still use afterward.

It also helps to think about how quickly the gift will make sense once it is opened. A strangely shaped kitchen tool, oversized mug, quirky desk accessory, or unexpectedly fancy everyday item can create an immediate reaction. Guests understand the joke right away, while the item still has enough practical value to attract a steal.

Pure gag gifts can be harder to pull off. Something that exists only for the punchline may get a big laugh during the reveal and then sit untouched for the rest of the game. If the goal is to bring one of the gifts everyone keeps fighting over, usefulness gives the joke staying power.

Memorable Present Ideas: Creating Inside Joke Gifts

Inside joke gifts can make a white elephant exchange feel much more personal, especially when most of the group shares the same stories. The trick is choosing a reference that people will recognize quickly instead of building the entire joke around something only two guests understand.

You can turn a memorable vacation mishap, office catchphrase, family story, or long-running group joke into the theme of the gift. A personalized comic book can work especially well when it turns familiar people or a ridiculous shared moment into part of the story. 

Think carefully about who the joke involves before ordering anything permanent. The gift should make the person feel included in the fun, not singled out for the wrong reason.

Can You Bring Something You Already Own?

Holiday gift exchanges can be a good place to re-gift something you never used, especially if it is unopened and clean.

The following can all work if they still look presentable:

  • A duplicate kitchen gadget
  • An untouched game
  • A decorative item
  • A sealed gift set 
  • An unopened candle
  • A new travel accessory

The goal is to give the item a second chance, not use the exchange as an excuse to clear out damaged or unwanted clutter.

Take a close look at the packaging before wrapping it. Faded boxes, missing pieces, visible wear, or anything that looks obviously used can make the gift feel careless. 

Wrapping Budget-Friendly Gifts

Wrapping can make gifts more entertaining before anyone even knows what’s inside.

Misdirection works especially well for fun party games. Put a small gift inside a much larger box. Use packaging from an unrelated household item.

Add harmless weight so guests cannot guess what they are holding. The reveal becomes part of the joke without changing the gift itself.

You can also lean into the theme of the exchange. Bright paper, oversized bows, reusable bags, or deliberately over-the-top wrapping can make an ordinary item feel more memorable. If the gift itself is already funny, simple wrapping may work better so the surprise stays hidden until the last second.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is Picking Last an Advantage in White Elephant?

Picking last can be an advantage because you get to see almost every gift before making your move. Instead of choosing blindly from the remaining wrapped presents, you can steal something that has already caught your attention if the rules still allow it.

That advantage depends on the house rules. Some games limit how many times a gift can be stolen.

Others lock an item once it reaches a certain number of steals. If the most popular gifts are already unavailable, the final player may have fewer strong options than expected.

The first player can also get another turn at the end in some versions of the game. That rule can balance things out, since the person who started with the least information may get one final chance to steal.

How Do You Plan White Elephant for a Large Group?

For a large white elephant exchange, set a firm spending limit and establish the stealing rules in advance.

Create a clear turn order before the game begins. Drawing numbers as guests arrive can save time once everyone is ready to start.

Keep the number of steals per gift limited so the game does not drag on. It also helps to have one person track which creative holiday presents have been stolen and when they are locked, especially if dozens of people are participating.

Can You Play White Elephant Virtually?

A virtual white elephant exchange can work over a video call, with one person keeping track of the turn order and each steal. Guests can either mail physical gifts ahead of time or use digital gifts that can be delivered once the game ends.

Set the spending limit and stealing rules before everyone joins. It also helps to decide how gifts will be revealed and who is responsible for sending each one afterward so the exchange does not become confusing.

Choose a Perfect White Elephant Gift in a Snap

Look for a white elephant gift that fits some of these criteria, and everyone will be trying to grab it at your next celebration.

Do you need more gift-giving tips and tricks? Make sure you read some of our other posts.

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