By Kathy Chouteau, The Richmond Standard

On 23rd Street Sunday, Richmond did what Richmond often does in its hardest moments: It showed up.

Hundreds of community members gathered at Tacos El Rulas on Aug. 22 in Richmond for a kermés fundraiser benefiting the Rivera family, who lost four family members in a house fire last week that authorities have described as suspicious.

The family-owned restaurant on 23rd Street turned a Sunday afternoon into a neighborhood act of care. A flyer for the event declared “Richmond Comes Together for the Rivera Family,” and the scene outside the restaurant made good on that promise: Families, neighbors, Richmond police officers and firefighters came by to support the cause. Proceeds from the day are intended to help the family with funeral expenses and more.

“We’re just here as public service to try to support the family and the community,” said Richmond Police Department Crime Prevention Manager Michelle Milam, who was among the public safety representatives at the event. “We think that this is a way that the community is trying to come together around pain and tragedy.”

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Raoul Ramirez, Angel’s father and owner of Tacos El Rulas, said the fundraiser was simply about giving “back to the community.” He said he knows the Rivera family and wanted to step up for them after the tragedy. Photo by Kathy Chouteau.

Milam said police and firefighters wanted to offer “our support and our care and our concern in the midst of the tragedy.”

The fundraiser was organized by the Ramirez family, owners of Tacos El Rulas. Angel Ramirez said the event was created specifically for the Rivera family and that “100%” of proceeds from food and drink sales would go to help them.

Customers purchased $2 tickets each, Angel said, then used them for tacos, water, drinks and other offerings at various stands in the spacious area in front of the restaurant, allowing organizers to keep count of the proceeds. “We’re just here to support them,” he said.

For Angel, the loss has affected the whole community. “It is hard,” he said, uttering, “heartbroken.”

The deaths resulting from the Aug. 18 fire included a 33-year-old woman, her 47-year-old father, her 5-year-old son, and her 2-year-old daughter. Authorities arrested 32-year-old Sergio Rivera Vega, a relative of the victims who lived at the residence, near the scene in connection with the suspicious fire.

Sunday’s fundraiser did not erase the enormity of the loss. It did something distinctly Richmond: It made sure the family did not have to stand alone in it.

Those unable to attend Sunday’s event, but who wish to support the Rivera family, can donate through the GoFundMe campaign established to help cover funeral and burial expenses.

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By Tanya Dennis

The Post’s Healthy Aging Series addresses key components for healthy aging: mind, body and spirit. This article addresses the importance of having a strong spiritual or religious foundation.

As America’s population grows older, conversations about healthy aging often focus on diet, exercise and medical care. But for Dr. Arnold Xavier Cornelius Perkins, who will celebrate his 85th birthday next month, another ingredient has been equally important: a spiritual foundation and a lifelong commitment to serving others.

Perkins believes that health is not simply physical. It is emotional, mental, and spiritual. And for much of his life, he says, his faith and philosophy of service have kept him vibrant, happy and connected to the world around him.

“I am my brothers’ and sisters’ keeper,” Perkins said. “I am a ‘we’ person,” and referenced the South African expression of ‘Ubuntu,’ which means ‘I am because we all are.”

Born in Miami, Florida, Perkins came to California in 1954 with his family to attend a Seventh-day Adventist General Conference. His family ultimately decided to remain in California, unwilling to return to the harsh racism of the segregated South.

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He grew up in Berkeley, attending Golden Gate Academy, Willard School, and Berkeley High School before joining the Navy during the Vietnam War era. He later attended Merritt College when the Black Panther Party was emerging in Oakland, where he became involved as a volunteer for the Student Non-Violent Coordinating Committee (SNCC). He graduated from San Francisco State University and completed additional coursework at Cal State East Bay.

His professional career became a remarkable journey through public service. Perkins served as Alameda County’s homeless coordinator, became a program officer with the San Francisco Foundation, headed a drug and alcohol program, and ultimately served as director of the Alameda County Public Health Department for 12 years before retiring in 2006.

But retirement did not mean stepping away from service.

Perkins jokingly describes this stage of his life as being in “preferment,” doing what he pleases. What he pleases, however, is continuing to help people.

He has worked with young people, served on San Quentin Prison’s warden advisory council, previously served on the Oakland Police Department Selection Commission, and completed two terms as chair of the Alameda County Juvenile Justice Delinquency Prevention Commission. He chaired the University of San Francisco’s Helen Diller Stanley Comprehensive Cancer Center for 10 years and is now in his 11th year serving on the California Wellness Foundation board.

Perkins even views a hereditary heart defect through the lens of his spiritual philosophy.

“I have a hole in my heart, so I’m not physically perfect,” he said. “But I look at it as I have a hole because I pour my heart out to people.”

That perspective may be one of his greatest lessons about healthy living. Perkins believes that kindness, compassion and community have a direct impact on a person’s emotional and spiritual well-being.

“If I see an unsheltered relative, I’d give them that $20,” he said. “My responsibility is to take care.”

For Perkins, giving does not deplete a person; it gives life back. “My life’s mission is to give,” he said. “And what I get back is life.”

He knows firsthand that one person can change another person’s destiny. As a young man, Perkins stuttered and often fought in response to the teasing and humiliation he experienced. A teacher, Jeff Tedisco, defended him and changed the direction of his life.

“If it hadn’t been for him,” Perkins said, “I would have been in San Quentin.”

Instead, Perkins now goes to Indaba Court, a restorative justice program, to help young people who have made wrong choices understand that they are part of a larger community.

“When they harm one person, they harm the community,” he said.

His prescription for a vibrant life is simple: be understanding, be kind and remember that life is not all about you.

“When we fold our arms, we can’t receive anything,” Perkins said. “But when we stretch out our arms and serve one another, we build community.”

At nearly 85, Arnold Perkins continues to prove that a life rooted in faith, service and love may be one of the most powerful foundations for healthy aging.

Next Week: Brenda Dennis Harris “The Body Temple.”

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